Bismillahirrahman nirrahim..
In the name of Allah..with the most precious and merciful..
everybody had their own fate and horrible thing in their life...
i know..it's hard to face something unexpected to be happen...
it's happen to me last day..when i was driving to take my sister at school..it really terrify me...
i was accidently collide a boy at a T-junction at my village..
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i'm driving a car while he just riding motocycle..i quickly bring him to the hospital when he screamed that his leg is injured..i felt horror-stuck and nervous..is his leg broke?alhamdulillah..thanks to Allah..
everything's fine..he just get pain at his toe and a little blood..i then wait for the doctor treatment and bring him home..hurgh..i felt relieve..with a smile, i drove back to take my sister..from school tuisyen..i dunno where did i got the strength back and but i could smile although i felt a little phobic disorder.
so, here we could see how suffer the victim and also the driver who face an accident? so, this is the function of a counselor to control the victim's emotion and feeling..thanks Godness that i'm able to motivate myself very fast and could drive back but different person had different time to get relieve..so, we as a relatives of the person who was in this case should support them and never blame them. as u see, i was also in that accident, my car crushed badly..instead of horror and phobias..i also worry of the payment to repair it back..so, i will feel depress..while the victim of the incident maybe could loss his healthy day for a while or maybe will suffer in his whole life losing someone important in teir life..so..
as a counseling student...i hope,everything that relate to life..we sould care it nicely..n i hope this is my last careles..amin..but sometime the scene play in my mind..i know..it just a signal to rmind me that i had done a fault and to enclose me to the Almighty..
maybe i had left to read al-matsurat or ayat 33 that my mother always remind me. This incident really remind me, that everything that we planned doesn't meant will happen..we drive safely and nicely but maybe, Allah want us to remember HIM more, so HE give us an obstacle and difficulties that will enclose us back to HIM. this is all because HE love us much..it always be like that..we will only remember HIM when we had a hard time but in happy time?
i'm sorry because i just using the broken english and not very well in writing..but i want u to know something that "PRACTISE MAKE PERFECT"..just try it and u will then got it..thanks..
a note about phobic disorder :
Phobias involve persistent, unrealistic, intense anxiety about and fear of certain situations, circumstances, or objects.
The anxiety caused by a phobic disorder can interfere with daily living because people avoid certain activities and situations.
The diagnosis is usually obvious based on symptoms.
Treatment may include exposure therapy, cognitive-behavior therapy, and drugs (such as antidepressants and, for specific phobias, benzodiazepines).
People who have a phobia avoid situations that trigger their anxiety and fear, or they endure them with great distress. However, they recognize that their anxiety is excessive and therefore are aware that they have a problem
* this is some kind of phobias :
Acrophobia | Fear of heights |
Amathophobia | Fear of dust |
Astraphobia | Fear of thunder and lightning |
Aviophobia | Fear of flying |
Belonephobia | Fear of needles, pins, or other sharp objects |
Brontophobia | Fear of thunder |
Claustrophobia | Fear of confined spaces |
Eurotophobia | Fear of female genitals |
Gephyrophobia | Fear of crossing bridges |
Hydrophobia | Fear of water |
Odontiatophobia | Fear of dentists |
Phartophobia | Fear of passing gas in a public place |
Phasmophobia | Fear of ghosts |
Phobophobia | Fear of having fears or developing a phobia |
Spargarophobia | Fear of asparagus |
Triskaidekaphobia | Fear of all things associated with the number thirteen |
Trypanophobia | Fear of injections |
Zoophobia | Fear of animals (usually spiders, snakes, or mice) |
this note bring to u :
and i know, all counseling and psychology student knows this in their psychology text book..thanks..
